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Bad Guy Matthew Oakley

Not much I can do now other then tell everyone else about what happened.
Lucille, I mentioned twice it was my fault for trusting him you're not making a new point. I also did say I read quite a few good things on him. No matter who you are you are going to get dissatisfied customers. I took it as 2 isolated incidents. I wouldn't think it was his 'thing' to send animals with mites.
 
Personally, I think it's proof enough. (?)
I think Patrick is being treated a little harshly being a newbie to this. I don't want to get crucified here as well, just sharing my opinion.

Patrick & I are from the same small town...if it helps, I can see your sunglow for myself & inspect your other reptiles as well? (I'm just trying to be helpful) Personally, I appreciate any heads up someone offers....especially when they live in the same town & I could see an animals conditions for myself.

If Matt had an outbreak of mites (which I know SUCKS!) a heads up with a possibility the animal may have them would've been helpful. I know it's embarrassing to admit such a thing but sometimes sh!t happens & it's not your (Matt's) fault. It's better to be honest than letting the buyer find out later & starting negative feedback on the BOI.

Again,...I'm just sharing my opinion,...I don't want to get dragged into the drama as well. Just felt the newbie attack was a little harsh. =/

Pat-I'm sorry your first boa/boa transaction wasnt more favorable. And if you see specks in between the scales, they are mites as well.

~*Always quarantine new animals in the event something like this should happen!!*~
 
Thanks for the sympathy. Like I've told Barbara before in the years I've kept snakes I've always purchased them through the Hamburg, PA show. I always avoided having them delivered as much as possible, but the Hamburg show seems to be more of a BP and Blood collection so I thought I'd try this. You live and you learn.

Personally, I think it's proof enough. (?)
I think Patrick is being treated a little harshly being a newbie to this. I don't want to get crucified here as well, just sharing my opinion.

Patrick & I are from the same small town...if it helps, I can see your sunglow for myself & inspect your other reptiles as well? (I'm just trying to be helpful) Personally, I appreciate any heads up someone offers....especially when they live in the same town & I could see an animals conditions for myself.

If Matt had an outbreak of mites (which I know SUCKS!) a heads up with a possibility the animal may have them would've been helpful. I know it's embarrassing to admit such a thing but sometimes sh!t happens & it's not your (Matt's) fault. It's better to be honest than letting the buyer find out later & starting negative feedback on the BOI.

Again,...I'm just sharing my opinion,...I don't want to get dragged into the drama as well. Just felt the newbie attack was a little harsh. =/

Pat-I'm sorry your first boa/boa transaction wasnt more favorable. And if you see specks in between the scales, they are mites as well.

~*Always quarantine new animals in the event something like this should happen!!*~
 
I don't think anybody was "crucified" or "attacked". I think that, even though this seller has a reputation for some not-so-terrific (to say the least) transactions, it still doesn't nullify the reason for needing proof of an actual transaction. This isn't the "supreme court", no, but if you want to make a complaint against someone, proof is almost ALWAYS required to get someone to actually listen to you.
 
I haven't really considered returning the snake. The amount of mites seems manageable I just want to work out a different price then previously discussed.

Screams buyers remorce. So because it had a "manageable" amount of mites, it deserves to be $150?
 
I give up on this thread. I never thought I'd get the treatment I got for trying to inform you guys on this breeder. I have become the bad guy for being sold a snake with mites. What a joke. You guys have nothing better to do then to come on here and instead of listening to what happened to me and avoiding it, scrutinize every little bit of information I've put up. What a waste of time. This will be the last reply on my part here. For those who read this in the future be careful with Matthew and I suggest if you ever want to buy an animal from him you meet up with him if anything. Thanks to those who read this and took it for what it is, a warning, instead of a source of how you can attack somebody.
 
You're only the "bad guy" because you refuse to show any proof of an actual transaction...i'm sorry you feel like you are being treated unfairly.

Why are you so reluctant to post the emails and/or pictures?
 
Screams buyers remorce. So because it had a "manageable" amount of mites, it deserves to be $150?
Not really but the seller did agree to a reduced price if his animal was not up to par , so i think the op has a point .
I give up on this thread. I never thought I'd get the treatment I got for trying to inform you guys on this breeder. I have become the bad guy for being sold a snake with mites. What a joke. You guys have nothing better to do then to come on here and instead of listening to what happened to me and avoiding it, scrutinize every little bit of information I've put up. What a waste of time. This will be the last reply on my part here. For those who read this in the future be careful with Matthew and I suggest if you ever want to buy an animal from him you meet up with him if anything. Thanks to those who read this and took it for what it is, a warning, instead of a source of how you can attack somebody.
While i see how some of the BOI regs have become overzealous here u have to understand the norm way to do these threads here is to post proof no matter who the person is that the thread is about.Sorry that you feel this way but proof is needed its the boi no oines word should be taken as proof ,i don't see how a simple copy and past job is too much work for you to do things the proper way .
 
To make my case credible I will post all my emails with him tomorrow, but the majority of the conversations were via texts. I do want my point to be believable. I will postal emails and possibly some text message dialogue to back up my point and that will be my last post here. I'm not reluctant to post it I just didn't think it was 100% necessary. I will do that though asap.
 
To make my case credible I will post all my emails with him tomorrow, but the majority of the conversations were via texts. I do want my point to be believable. I will postal emails and possibly some text message dialogue to back up my point and that will be my last post here. I'm not reluctant to post it I just didn't think it was 100% necessary. I will do that though asap.

Thank you, Patrick. That will help a TON. :yesnod:
 
Not really but the seller did agree to a reduced price if his animal was not up to par , so i think the op has a point .

while i agree, what justifies as "up to par"? for most of us its the same, but to others (i can think of someone on the AC thread about geckos) it can be something so very minor and it becomes a "freak". mites suck, and the animal doesn't deserve to have them, but he admitted to not QTing it. I don't think mites should justify a price of an animal like a kink, etc should. at least not that drastically.
 
To make my case credible I will post all my emails with him tomorrow, but the majority of the conversations were via texts. I do want my point to be believable. I will postal emails and possibly some text message dialogue to back up my point and that will be my last post here. I'm not reluctant to post it I just didn't think it was 100% necessary. I will do that though asap.

Good to hear man and i wish for u to get a good resolution to all this .
 
To make my case credible I will post all my emails with him tomorrow, but the majority of the conversations were via texts. I do want my point to be believable. I will postal emails and possibly some text message dialogue to back up my point and that will be my last post here. I'm not reluctant to post it I just didn't think it was 100% necessary. I will do that though asap.

if you can also post all text messages (if you have a smart phone/black berry it should be easy). if the majority were over the text messages itll help your case even more.
 
Here is a paypal screenshot with my information deleted, as many emails as possible, and texts until the point he has stopped responding.

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On Nov 8, 2010, at 9:49 PM, "Patrick Rodrigues" <[email protected]> wrote:
Hey, interested in your lipstick sunglow http://market.kingsnake.com/detail.php?cat=8&de=818391

What will the shipping be to 07032? How often is he eating? Good feeding response? What were the parents?

Thanks,
Patrick
From: Matthew Oakley [mailto:[email protected]]
Sent: Tuesday, November 09, 2010 2:46 AM
To: Patrick Rodrigues
Subject: Re: Reply to ad

Shipping would be $35. He feeds everytime I feed him (weekly) without fail. He was produced from lipstick sunglow x hypo het lipstick sunglow.

Thanks,
Matt

Sent from my iPhone
On Nov 13, 2010, at 7:46 PM, "Patrick Rodrigues" <[email protected]> wrote:
You got a really nice snake there and I was very tempted to buy from you, but you have a horrible reputation when I ran an inquiry on you. I don't want to take the chance.

-Patrick
Thanks and I understand, in the past 6-7 years (I started breeding when I was 17) I've had about 1000 herp related transactions and 5 or less people have complained on the net about. I really dont see that as bad. When i was younger I didnt know they correct way to do everything as I had no experienced breeder to teach me, but over time have learned. I can guarantee you im one of the most knowledgable people youve talked to when it comes to animals. I also have an awesome collection which you can search me on facebook to see. Everyone has has someone complain about them sometime or another but I always do what I feel is fair, I've even had customers express they weren't satisfied, done exactly what they asked me to and they've still gone online and complained about the transaction. Everyone is always quick to criticize and no one is quick to stand up for you. I just got emails with people telling me they agree with me but are afraid to post because they'll be attacked also.

This is a great animal as can be seen from his pics and he's perfect. I've never done this before, but if you want him and feel like you're taking a chance I'd be willing to send him to you for $150. If he is not as I've descriped him he's yours for that. If I did accurately describe him then you send me the total balance for him. This way i'm the one taking the chance and not you. Then feel free to post of the transaction. If you're not interested in this no problem.

Thanks,
Matt

Sent from my iPhone

On Nov 14, 2010, at 1:36 PM, "Patrick Rodrigues" <[email protected]> wrote:
You had an ad on Kingsnake.com for a male Lipstick Sunglow, is he still available and would we be able to work out that same deal with him?
Yes

Thanks,
Matt

Sent from my iPhone

The ad is gone can you send me some pics of him and also answer a few questions for me....
What's he feeding on? F/t?
What are his parents?
When was he born?
Thanks

-Patrick

I answered them in the first email:

F/t medium mice. Lipstick albino x hypo het lipstick sunglow.
He was born 7/10

Thanks,
Matt

Sent from my iPhone

On Nov 14, 2010, at 4:16 PM, "Patrick Rodrigues" <[email protected]> wrote:
Thanks for the pictures man can you answer those couple questions for me too? Thanks

From: Matthew Oakley [mailto:[email protected]]
Sent: Sunday, November 14, 2010 2:26 PM
To: Patrick Rodrigues
Subject: Re: Reply to ad

On Nov 14, 2010, at 11:00 PM, "Patrick Rodrigues" <[email protected]> wrote:
Ok so what will the total come out to? I can do Paypal and the first payment will be $150.00, right?
What's your zip?

Thanks,
Matt

Sent from my iPhone

On Nov 15, 2010, at 10:30 AM, Patrick Rodrigues <[email protected]> wrote:
07032

$415 would be the total shipped. $150 would be the deposit.
After recieving him in good condition the rest due would be $265.

Thanks,
Matt

Sent from my iPhone

Contact was lost at this point for a couple days. Then.......

On Nov 17, 2010, at 11:13 PM, Patrick Rodrigues <[email protected]> wrote:

> Dude why are you not getting back to me? If you don't want to sell it
> to me anymore just tell me.
>
> Sent from my iPhone

Sorry, I've been busy at work. As Shipyourreptiles is not available to ship I registered with another shipping company to ship my snakes and they haven't contacted me back yet (reptileexpress). I'm waiting for them as when I contacted UPS direct to ship a 6x6x6 package to CA wed the quoted me $83 which is insane and would have costed me $45 before.
I'm just waiting on them to see what the discount will be and resume shipping.

Thanks,
Matt

I just got you email about texting which is better for me but I don't want to text at 4:30am so my # is (443)846-4288

Thanks,
Matt

Sent from my iPhone

From this point it went to texts. Lets fast forward to the text that the snake had mites

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