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Bad Guy Matthew Oakley

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Let me start off by saying I feel like this is MY fault for not listening to other people and threads, but here goes my story....

Matthew Oakley had an ad on Kingsnake for a $375.00 Lipstick Sunglow that looked amazing. I sent him an email asking about the snake and shipping. He responded with the prices and everything almost immediately. Then, I ran an inquiry on him and saw almost only bad things on him for shipping methods and a story of mites on his animal too. So I wrote back and told him although I'd love to buy your snake from you after the inquiry I ran on you I rather stay away and apologized. He then wrote this back to me:

From: Matthew Oakley [mailto:[email protected]]
Sent: Sunday, November 14, 2010 1:20 PM
To: Patrick Rodrigues
Subject: Re: Reply to ad

Thanks and I understand, in the past 6-7 years (I started breeding when I was 17) I've had about 1000 herp related transactions and 5 or less people have complained on the net about. I really dont see that as bad. When i was younger I didnt know they correct way to do everything as I had no experienced breeder to teach me, but over time have learned. I can guarantee you im one of the most knowledgable people youve talked to when it comes to animals. I also have an awesome collection which you can search me on facebook to see. Everyone has has someone complain about them sometime or another but I always do what I feel is fair, I've even had customers express they weren't satisfied, done exactly what they asked me to and they've still gone online and complained about the transaction. Everyone is always quick to criticize and no one is quick to stand up for you. I just got emails with people telling me they agree with me but are afraid to post because they'll be attacked also.

This is a great animal as can be seen from his pics and he's perfect. I've never done this before, but if you want him and feel like you're taking a chance I'd be willing to send him to you for $150. If he is not as I've descriped him he's yours for that. If I did accurately describe him then you send me the total balance for him. This way i'm the one taking the chance and not you. Then feel free to post of the transaction. If you're not interested in this no problem.

Thanks,
Matt
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After reading something like that you think man let me give this guy a shot. So I did. Let's start with shipping. I know Shipyourreptiles.com is down right now in shipping snakes so he had no way of getting the snake to me. He then offered to send it through UPS direct because he's done it a couple times before and everything went well. He said he's deliver as close to 5:00PM as possible and the snake would get to me before 10:30AM. I was a little weary on this because it's illegal to ship through ups without using SYR or ReptileExpress but I trusted his judgement since he is a "breeder". Well he sent me the package "Next Day Air Saver" which means, yes, it gets to me next day but NOT before 10:30AM as promised. Well it got to me at 5:00PM. 12 hours on the road with 38 degree temperature that day. Luckily the snake was alive and looked very responsive. He did bite me though because I'm sure he was stressed. Let me add packaged perfectly, but still late. So I put him in my enclosure that was already all set up for him and I had to leave the house for a couple hours. I get back to re-examine him and notice MITES! I admit I freaked out. I never had mites in any of my snakes and at the time he was alongside my collection. I quarantined him immediately and notified Matthew at 10:00PM. No answer until 2:00PM the next day stating that he never noticed mites on him so it couldn't be that many. He also said that mites "will not affect this animal" and it couldn't of came from him because he was quarantined. When in fact he was NOT. He sent me a video of the snake feeding in a rack system along with other snakes. He asked me what I wanted to do and that he'd help me work things out. I notified him that I would not pay the second amount in full because I had to buy PAM $28 and he doesn't deserve the full amount for a sick animal. He asked me how much would I like to give him I never gave him a number I want to see the snakes progress after I received PAM and apply it to his enclosure. I texted him 2 days ago to talk about the mites he said he was reffing a tournament and would call me back and never did. My how his responsiveness has slowed down ever since I told him the snake had mites. What a surprise.

Matthew has a very professional approach and is very responsive, but he clearly does not care for his animals well being. With my story and past threads on him he doesn't care for the animals safety in transportation and this will be another account of his animal having mites. I feel that this is my fault for not listening to my gut instinct, but at least I have the opportunity to nurse this beautiful animal to good health. Everyone be advised
 
I only got him Wednesday and ordered PAM right after. But, due to the holiday weekend they will only ship tomorrow. The conversations mentioned were over a 2 week period.
 
I have not made him aware. I'm not here to bash Matthew either. I have read many good things on him before too. I did state he packaged the snake perfectly, gave me a very good deal and payment opportunity, is professional, and responsive. But, despite all that the animal still has mites andthe package got here late although he did tell me he didn't know it would get here late he's still held accountable. I'm not going to post 100 email and text conversations on here just the story.
 
I have not made him aware. I'm not here to bash Matthew either. I have read many good things on him before too. I did state he packaged the snake perfectly, gave me a very good deal and payment opportunity, is professional, and responsive. But, despite all that the animal still has mites andthe package got here late although he did tell me he didn't know it would get here late he's still held accountable. I'm not going to post 100 email and text conversations on here just the story.
So you'll make these allegations but not post the proof? If you wanted to help others, you'd post the email correspondence. How hard is it to copy and paste?
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Just because someone has other negative BOI threads about them doesn't mean that you can come here and post another one AND expect people to believe you.
You're welcome to leave it as it is, "just the story", but I have a strong feeling people will take this with more than a grain of salt because of your attitude about posting the emails.
:shootfoot
 
I haven't really considered returning the snake. The amount of mites seems manageable I just want to work out a different price then previously discussed.

You kind of already did by taking back the $28 for PAM. Without posting anymore proof and emails it sounds like to me you want more off. Just my take on it
 
This isn't the supreme court. I'm hear to tell my story on what happened you can believe me or not. I'm posting here mostly neutral. Not to attack him, if I were I wouldve added all our conversations and texts. He wasn't completely negligent to my emails or texts. Im posting what happened that's all. If this isn't helpful, sorry.

So you'll make these allegations but not post the proof? If you wanted to help others, you'd post the email correspondence. How hard is it to copy and paste?
:shrug01:
Just because someone has other negative BOI threads about them doesn't mean that you can come here and post another one AND expect people to believe you.
You're welcome to leave it as it is, "just the story", but I have a strong feeling people will take this with more than a grain of salt because of your attitude about posting the emails.
:shootfoot
 
This isn't the supreme court. I'm hear to tell my story on what happened you can believe me or not. I'm posting here mostly neutral. Not to attack him, if I were I wouldve added all our conversations and texts. He wasn't completely negligent to my emails or texts. Im posting what happened that's all. If this isn't helpful, sorry.

You're not mostly neutral when you posted this as a bad guy thread. Everyone here expects to see proof of what happened before they can agree or disagree with you. Right now it's just your word to go on.
 
You're right and in this world nobody can just go by what you said so if this isn't any help then I ask the moderators to remove it. I thought this was just to contribute stories. Sorry if I wasted your time.
 
Why would you say it isn't a real Lipstick? His parents were Lipstick. I looked directly at Tom Burke's collection and wasn't crazy about the ones he had available.

Thats why you got to stick with the reputable people.

You what have got a real 'Lipstick' Sunglow.
 
You're right and in this world nobody can just go by what you said so if this isn't any help then I ask the moderators to remove it. I thought this was just to contribute stories. Sorry if I wasted your time.



Moderators don't remove BOI threads. Right now, you just look like a bad customer, you've made allegations without proof.

Anyone can contribute stories and some are not true. When you are dealing with the reputation of your seller, if proof is not posted and you have it, you begin to look like a bad guy yourself.
 
I am not going to take sides here one way or another because it doesnt affect me in any way, but I am going to say that the BOI is here to be used as a tool, and a source of information for all of us in the reptile community.

Lets face it, there are many bad guy posts, (some warranted and some not), but those that have multiple "bad guy" threads should just be shyed away from all together.

For those that choose to disregard and ignore the "bad guy" history of a seller and assume the risk of purchasing from them anyway, IMO has no right to post anything negative about their so-called bad experience with said seller.

Who really is the bad guy in these situations? The one selling the junk or the one buying junk?

It is these buyers that continue to enable these said "bad guys" to thrive and live within this business.

Once again, the BOI is here as a tool, USE IT !

Just my opinion
 
This is a great animal as can be seen from his pics and he's perfect. I've never done this before, but if you want him and feel like you're taking a chance I'd be willing to send him to you for $150. If he is not as I've descriped him he's yours for that. If I did accurately describe him then you send me the total balance for him. This way i'm the one taking the chance and not you. Then feel free to post of the transaction. If you're not interested in this no problem.

Thanks,
Matt
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If he agreed to give you the snake for the $150 you've already spent if you were not satisfied, then what is the issue here? You took a calculated risk from someone you doubted from the get go. You have the snake and he agreed ahead of time that no more money was required if you were not happy. I assume mites count as an imperfection... they would to me. ;)

I know Shipyourreptiles.com is down right now in shipping snakes so he had no way of getting the snake to me. He then offered to send it through UPS direct because he's done it a couple times before and everything went well. He said he's deliver as close to 5:00PM as possible and the snake would get to me before 10:30AM. I was a little weary on this because it's illegal to ship through ups without using SYR or ReptileExpress but I trusted his judgement since he is a "breeder". Well he sent me the package "Next Day Air Saver" which means, yes, it gets to me next day but NOT before 10:30AM as promised. Well it got to me at 5:00PM.

Back up here... you knew he was using illegal means to send you snakes and yet you "trusted his judgement" that it was a good idea. You realize that you would be in big trouble as well if something should happen... The seller could have become FedEx Certified to legally ship snakes. If he did not want to make the effort, then he has no business offering anything other than local pickup. The fact that the snake was late is irrelevant, you two conspired to take a stupid (and ILLEGAL) risk. The industry has enough issues without people bending the rules to suit their own purposes.


So I put him in my enclosure that was already all set up for him and I had to leave the house for a couple hours. I get back to re-examine him and notice MITES! I admit I freaked out. I never had mites in any of my snakes and at the time he was alongside my collection. I quarantined him immediately and notified Matthew at 10:00PM. No answer until 2:00PM the next day stating that he never noticed mites on him so it couldn't be that many. He also said that mites "will not affect this animal" and it couldn't of came from him because he was quarantined. When in fact he was NOT. He sent me a video of the snake feeding in a rack system along with other snakes.

Since you are not willing to post any proof of any kind, this is just a he said/he said argument regarding the mites. Neither of you quarantined the snake and mites are easily spread when you just toss a snake into the general populous of your collection. Who's to say the mites didn't come from your own collection. Without proof, we have no way of knowing...
 
You know it's unbelievable I post on here for the good of the Fauna community and I'M being attacked. I'm posting on here to make other people aware not for my own satisfaction. Anyway for people other than Sushi Dragon who honestly care to see pics and evidence I just took a couple snap shots and sent them to the breeder too. You can see a mite walking on him that's only the second one I've actually seen walking on him. Other than that I see black specs in between his scales that don't move and I can't rub out. Can those be mites too? Please don't waste your time responding to speculate other things other than the animal at hand.

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You are not being attacked, we simply insisted that if you say something adverse about a seller, you do it like a man and provide proof, not just telling a 'story'.

No matter what sort of history, positive or neative, a seller has had, if you accuse him, you need to provide facts and proof if you have it.
 
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