My experiences with Mike:
I got to know Mike through PM’s here on Fauna, and on July 8th Mike sent me a PM asking if he could call me because he had some questions about corn snakes and geckos. I sent him my number, and we talked for a while about reptiles.
After that I talked to Mike several times over the phone, lending a sympathetic ear to problems he told me he was having. I had read about his mother’s ailing health online, and couldn’t imagine having to go through that myself. Anyway, Mike told me that Tere had asked him three times to move out, and that she had given him a deadline by which he needed to be gone. Mike also told me that he had no money, no place to go, and no one to turn to. He seemed like a decent guy over the phone, and unfortunately I believed him. Mike told me numerous bad things about Tere and her family, and I really started to develop a very negative impression of her. He claimed that he would wake up early to take care of Tere’s children, have lunch ready by a certain time, and also make dinner for everyone before he would go to work. He told me that Tere usually stayed in bed until around noon, and that she also took numerous naps throughout the day. Basically he painted a picture of Tere in my head as someone who was lazy and expected him to take care of her children and household chores since she was allowing him to stay with her.
I’ve since talked to Tere numerous times on the phone. I don’t think the woman ever sleeps. She is always doing laundry, cleaning, taking care of her children or her dragons whenever I call.
Mike had told me that when he and Cory moved in with Tere that they got there with $4000 between the two of them, and that he gave $2000 of it to Tere to help with their expenses. Mike added that the rest of the money went to help pay off several of Tere and John’s outstanding bills, and that he had very little if any money left.
Since then, I have spoken with Tere, John, and Cory (who is still staying with them). All three have confirmed that there was NEVER $4000 to start with.
On July 20th, Mike sent me the following message:
I talked to him about it over the phone, and he had told me that he sold a dragon to a guy and the dragon just died. Mike said that the guy wanted a refund, but Mike did not have the money to send to him. Keep in mind that at this point, I still believed that Mike was an honest and genuine person. I decided to help Mike out, given everything that he had told me was going on. On July 21st, I sent $500 to Mike through Paypal with the message “Mike, don’t worry about paying me back until you get yourself set up and comfortable.” I know he only asked to borrow $100, but I thought that having some extra money might make it easier for him to leave the situation that he described as being so horrible. Mike expressed his gratitude, promising to pay it back as soon as he possibly could. I believed him.
Dumb move on my part, but it gets worse.
Since I believed that Mike would be “out on the streets” and that he was an honest and truthful person, I told him that he could stay at my house for a while until he got back on his feet. This is NOT something that I’ve ever done before for someone whom I haven’t known for at LEAST a year, but I will admit that I have allowed friends to stay with me while they were down on their luck.
Mike told me that he had purchased shipping supplies for the dragons from Dachiu and that he had contributed to expenses at the Salazar’s house with the money I loaned him. While making arrangements to fly here to WI, he realized he did not have enough money left to buy a ticket, so I sent him an additional $75. He promised to repay that as well.
Since Mike was going to be sending all of his dragons to my house, I needed to come up with enclosures for them before they got here. I spent DAYS emptying and cleaning out old fish tanks, setting up shelves, and arranging screen tops, dome lights, etc. Then I started moving furniture and setting up the guest bedroom, which hadn’t been used in years.
I picked up Mike from the airport on Friday, July 29th.
While Mike lived here he offered a lot of personal information and gossip about not only Tere and her family, but other people in the reptile industry as well. He apparently gained access to the Salazar’s financial records, as he freely shared with me their information. Most of these things, even if true, he had NO business repeating to anyone.
I drove Mike wherever he needed to go. This included trips to local stores to find employment, buy supplies, etc. Crap, I even brought him with me to SEWERfest in Racine the day after he got here. He landed a job at a grocery store a few miles from my house, but it required a uniform that he did not have, nor could afford. So, I even took him shopping and bought what he needed to work there.
As time went by, I began to get suspicious of certain things Mike had said and done. On Wednesday, August 17th I sent the email to Tere that she has posted above, despite Mike’s pleas that I wouldn’t. Not only am I glad that I did, but I can NEVER thank Tere enough for responding to me. Tere – Thanks again.
Tere and I spoke for several hours, clarifying and sharing the NUMEROUS lies that Mike had told both of us. These lies were about each other, other people we knew, Mike’s behavior, finances, etc. Unfortunately, I had to go out of town and wouldn’t be back until later in the evening. I was concerned what Mike may do to/with my belongings and my animals based on some of the things Tere told me. I locked up every room in the house, including my reptile room, and hoped to be back before Mike returned from work.
Mike was already back in my house before I could get home. You have NO idea how nervous this made me, nor how FURIOUS I was. I told him that I had spoke with Tere, and that I found out that he had been lying to me from the start. Mike sat there in MY living room, continuing to lie straight to my face. Later in the evening he finally broke down and admitted to several of his lies. I told him I wanted him out of here as soon as possible. I even bought him his plane ticket home to PA, and dropped him off at the bus station the next morning, just to get him out of my house.
Mike and I had agreed that I would be keeping some of the dragons as a method of repayment. I did not necessarily want these animals, but since I did not believe I would ever see a dime of the $800+ that he owed me, I figured it would be my only opportunity for reimbursement. More importantly, I did not believe that Mike had cages set up for them at his mom’s house, and I knew that I could continue to take care of them as long as needed. Numerous emails were exchanged back and forth negotiating dragon values and deciding which ones I would be keeping. The list of dragons was forwarded so many times that it is now littered by computer jargon and is hard to read, but I think this is the most important one, as I suspect Mike has probably told others that I and/or Tere have “stolen” his dragons from him.
I have saved every email regarding these dragons, and can forward them or post them if needed.
Included in the lot of dragons were some from Vickie Dachiu that Tere has previously mentioned. Per our agreement, all of them were to be kept by either myself or Tere. I had no part to play in the loan or whatever it was of these dragons between Vickie and Mike. As far as I could be concerned, they belonged to Mike, and he signed them over to me.
A few weeks later, Mike had told Tere that Vickie was still expecting someone to pay her for these dragons. I had sent an email to Vickie asking for her approval in me keeping them as a form of repayment from Mike, but I never received a response. I figured that Mike had just lied to her as well. Because I don’t want anyone in this industry to be upset with me for any reason that I do not deserve, I wrote a check out to Vickie in the amount of $300 to cover the dragons, and mailed it to her with an explanation. I can post that here too, if needed. I just wanted to be DONE with all of this b.s.