kerrek
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Unless compromise amounts to one side relinquishing any real sense of control over the outcome, I just don't see it. Ty dictated the terms at every turn, and in the process quite probably enjoyed the feeling of power that comes from telling the little guy just how it's going to be. By taking the stance that she's simply going to get whatever it is he decides to send her - details be damned - I think it's clear that any refusal to compromise would much more appropriately be laid at Ty Park's feet. I haven't read anything to suggest that, had her reasonable questions been answered and she found those answers satisfactory, she wouldn't have accepted tegu Y.her refusal to compromise
Because...reasons? That's my best guess.And I am still waiting for you to tell me why it is ok for Ty to not tell the OP what he was sending and where it came from.
It is true, you can catch more flies with sugar, so maybe Michelle should not have called him scammy, or shady. How would you react if someone implied that you were one of those terms?Also kiddies when conducting a transaction be upfront and honest with the person you are conducting it with. If they ask you a question give them an answer don't string them along or give vague. Otherwise they might call you/the situation scammy or shady (among others) because at that point, you can expect the relationship to further deteriorate.
You see that works both ways. And I am still waiting for you to tell me why it is ok for Ty to not tell the OP what he was sending and where it came from.
It is true, you can catch more flies with sugar, so maybe Michelle should not have called him scammy, or shady. How would you react if someone implied that you were one of those terms?
I never said it was "OK", I just feel like Michelle was acting a bit naive she had asked what he was sending, he said it will be a tegu just like the one in the picture, then she continued with many questions which largely went unanswered.
The questions were legitimate, Casey, because at the time they were asked, he had only told her he would get one from another breeder and all she wanted was to know its background and see a photo or two. It is totally acceptable to want that when he is substituting one animal for the expected prize. He refused to provide her any info, apparently because he felt it was beneath him to do so and/or he already knew he couldn't get one from anyone else. That is when things began taking a bad turn.
Then, AFTER THE FACT, he says he was going to send her a tegu he produced instead but didn't do so because he got upset with her. I don't even believe that he ever intended to send that one he says he later auctioned off. It's quite easy to cover one's butt by saying so afterwards, though. Had he been upfront and told her that, she would probably have accepted it and this whole mess could have been avoided.
It is true, you can catch more flies with sugar, so maybe Michelle should not have called him scammy, or shady. How would you react if someone implied that you were one of those terms?
I never said it was "OK", I just feel like Michelle was acting a bit naive she had asked what he was sending, he said it will be a tegu just like the one in the picture, then she continued with many questions which largely went unanswered.
It is true, you can catch more flies with sugar, so maybe Michelle should not have called him scammy, or shady. How would you react if someone implied that you were one of those terms?
I never said it was "OK", I just feel like Michelle was acting a bit naive she had asked what he was sending, he said it will be a tegu just like the one in the picture, then she continued with many questions which largely went unanswered.
When it was clear that she wanted to know the animal's origin, that scenario seemed to be one of the obvious justifications. There are multiple reasons why someone would want to have certain information about animals entering their collection. As you said, there are potential ethical concerns at play. Like, if I knew that the tegu had come directly from Mike Matson, Bobby Hill, or someone of their ilk, I really wouldn't want any involvement in anything that would even indirectly be supporting such a person's business. Although, I have to think that any outright refusal based on purely ethical grounds would probably have left her in an appreciably weaker position.As to her being naïve and asking too many questions. What if he got the replacement tegu from a breeder or a source that she wanted no part of? You realize there are breeders and dealers out there that some people want no part of doing business with right? I'd guess you yourself have people on your do not sell and do not buy from list I know I do.
A good friend sent me a brief message while I was in the plane getting ready to takeoff, headed home to Chicago. The message simply said in entirety as follows:
"Hey Ty,
Don't respond to the fauna BOI. She's trying to take advantage of you, plain and simple."
This was the first I heard of a recent post on FaunaClassifieds as I haven't been active on that site for a while now.
I have no time to read all the comments or even the initial complaint made by Michelle as I rather spend my valuable time during this precious season with my family and friends. It's is just a speck of irritation on my glass-is-always-full-life.
When IRCF (International Reptile Conservation Foundation) was having difficulty with it's fund raising efforts to help save some of the critically endangered iguanas, I wanted to step up and help. After couple days of thinking, I decided that the best way for me to help them right away was to run a raffle for one of my most desired species (albino tegu) that would be produced in 2016. At this point in the year, I was mostly sold out of animals that I produced in 2015 and I was also tapped out on my giving to reptile related causes, which exceeded $50,000 in 2015.
I ran the idea by IRCF, which is a registered non-profit, and they agreed that we should give it a try. The idea was for me to donate 2 albino tegus to raffle off to raise funds. In addition, I also donated a third albino tegu to a donor who wanted to donate $2500 for one albino tegu---instead of participating in a raffle. We collectively raised more than $7500 (it might be closer to $9000.00 but I can't remember the exact figure at the moment) for IRCF.
What I forgot or didn't think about at the time of the raffle was that there are two types of albino tegu: one is typical albino which are T- albino and the other is highly priced T+ or Purple albino tegu. These were produced by breeding heterozygous blue tegus, so the outcome of which albino or how many by looking at the parents or the eggs are useless. I typically sell my T- albino blue Tegu's for $2500 and T+/purple albino blue tegus for $5000. In 2015, most of my albinos were T- with only two being hatched as T+, which I kept as future breeders. That result was what I was expecting in 2016 but it didn't turn out that way---all the albino tegus I produced were, to my surprise, T+ albinos. At this point, I decided to tell Michelle and others that, although I produced albino tegus, they were all expensive type and that I would buy 3 normal T- tegus from a friend to send to them. I could have just bought the tegus from a friend and shipped them without them knowing but I wanted to be honest and open. The other two winner and buyer was more than happy and gracious but not Michelle. She wanted the $3000 instead because "I didn't produce albino tegu"---which I clearly did. If she approached me and asked for money because she needed the money due to her financial need, I would have most likely to helped her by sending her the money but I felt that she was rather being greedy instead. At this point she started to inundate me with questions which I did not want to answer knowing what kind of person she was and that anything I say might be twisted by her to her advantage, so my answer to her was none or very short. I decided also that I would send her the tegu that I produced (T+ albino) since her contention was that she wanted one that I produced and not by someone else, but I didn't communicate that with her to the end because I wanted to see what kind of person she was and she was greedy to the end. I ask for her address twice so that I could ship her the tegu but she refused each time. After the second refusal, I decided to auction off the tegu I was going to ship her to raise more money for IRCF, which we did to the tune of more than $5000.
Soon I received a registered letter informing me of a lawsuit filed by her in MA. After much thought, I hired an attorney to take care of the lawsuit and fight her claims in court. We decided to ask for change of venue as it would be difficult/inconvenient for me to attend this court case and because the farm is in FL. After few back and forth filing amendments, my attorney set up a phone session with magistrate judge on Dec. 13. At this meeting, she asked for a tegu but I refused because I didn't think she deserved it and that tegu I saved for her was auction off already. I offered her $400 to reimburse her for the raffle tickets she purchase. The next court date is in February and I'll let the judge decide what is right. All I wanted to do was to help the animals in desperate need. In the future, I would still try to help animals in need but with caution. If I see a suffering dog in an enclosed car, I am still going to break the "law" and damage someone's property.
I am currently dictating this response in flight so that once at home, I would not waste my valuable time on this. This will be my one and only post. I'll let others judge me for my actions positive or negative. This time of the year is great and fun time for me and I wish everyone the same---great holiday season filled with love of family and friendship. Here's looking at 2017 with open arms and open hearts.
Ty
When it was clear that she wanted to know the animal's origin, that scenario seemed to be one of the obvious justifications. There are multiple reasons why someone would want to have certain information about animals entering their collection. As you said, there are potential ethical concerns at play. Like, if I knew that the tegu had come directly from Mike Matson, Bobby Hill, or someone of their ilk, I really wouldn't want any involvement in anything that would even indirectly be supporting such a person's business. Although, I have to think that any outright refusal based on purely ethical grounds would probably have left her in an appreciably weaker position.
There are also some more pragmatic concerns that could possibly be relevant. It's not out of the realm of possibility that certain breeders may be known to produce animals that aren't particularly high quality. Perhaps initial breeding stock may not be as robust as other lines; maybe excessive, injudicious inbreeding eventually yielded a weaker line. I have trouble believing that anyone involved with breeding animals could keep a straight face while suggesting it's naive to insist on knowing as much about an animal's lineage as possible.
I know that Ty said she'd receive something of the same quality as what he produces - but let's face it, he's made numerous statements that are dubious at best. All in all, I think it would be foolish to suggest that her questions weren't deserving of useful, specific answers.
Would it really have been THAT damaging to you, Ty, to have taken the high road in this? Is it too late for that now? Isn't there a good chance you will produce more next year? Would it really be that devastating to send a winner of the raffle exactly what she wants? She was willing to spend her hard earned money for ONLY a chance at AN ALBINO TEGU THAT WAS PRODUCED BY YOU? Right or wrong (as I can see both sides of this), and ego and heels dug in aside, only one person involved can take the step that is available to be done to come up out of this smelling like roses. The only thing the OP can do is just give up on a supposed lost cause, and what then is left behind as a result? Everyone involved is going to have a bad taste in their mouth over this. All this headache just because you produced animals that you could GET MORE MONEY FOR? Well, has it been worth it?
Swallowing pride is a pretty bitter pill to swallow, but in the long run, it proves out to be medicine well worth taking.
IMHO, of course.
Nicksgrl said
"At this point I would accept the other one offered if its still an option (no its not what she should have to do) and sell it for 2500 and use the money later to get the animal I wanted. I doubt he would straight up sell you one of his now, but maybe get a friend to buy one of his for you with the money if you really want his lineage. I think that is probably the furthest ahead you will end up in this whole situation, it sucks but lemons to lemonade."
There is no "other one" he didn't produce any t- and he couldn't get one from a friend.
As for just accepting It and thenselling it,,,,, I concise that flipping and that's not what I do. With ANY of my animals.
The department of agriculture consumer services in FL sent ty a letter on Friday asking him if he wants to settle this. He has 39 days to respond but it will be public. I'm hoping he just does the right thing
The department of agriculture consumer services in FL sent ty a letter on Friday asking him if he wants to settle this. He has 30 days to respond but it will be public. I'm hoping he just does the right thing
Like I said 10 pages ago, you will lose this fight. You too have your groupies cheering you on, is any one of them a lawyer? When Ty Park asked you for your address to send you something, you should have given him your address. Your failure to do so, will be seen by the court as rejecting the prize. And that is the end of the story for you. And then, if Ty is extra angry about this he could and should sue you for libel.
This whole rant/post faunaclassifieds, all 73 pages of it, is a written defamation. All of this does damage to Ty's reputation. How many times was the word scammer, dishonest used in all of this?
What would you accept as settlement?