lucille said:
Marcia, you should really learn to read carefully. I do however, think you are very unlike people who I consider religious after reading some of the nasty, unkind posts you have gleefully penned, obviously intending to hurt others.
There is no question that you have some leadership ability, and I think it is sad that you used it to lead people astray in the posts where you ripped Rich and Fauna. I think both Rich and Fauna are good things, and I think Rich does the very best he can, and it disappointed me to see the way you treated him.
For those who have written me privately saying that I should just sweep this entire event under the rug and go on as if it never happened, I do not think, that if you think about it, that people's emotions and thoughts can be mandated this way. People process their feelings in their own time, not in the time that others feel is convenient.
I think that for those who were involved in the horrendous ripping and shredding of Fauna, the fact that you are here is a tribute to the man and the site that you deliberately chose to hurt.
You know what Lucille, after you contributed in a large way to get me kicked off here by lying and no apology from you for it, that is exactly what I had to do, sweep it under the carpet and get on with life. Although I missed this site and the people on here you were not one of them. So far I have been fairly civil to you.
Not now though, I AM the type a person that what I can say behind someones back, man I can say to their face, in this case in writing!
I have talked to Kelly and Marcia in the past, they are both very very nice people, with real emotions and real feelings. They admit when they are wrong, unlike you.
Instead what I have seen of you over the years is whining, whining over everything that does not go your way or what you perceive Fauna should be like. Hell Lucille, you are the only one I know around here that has gotten a WHOLE LONG THREAD deleted that was solely dedicated to you "Is Lucille worth it" thread. GONE!!! Where one could and did say what they really thought about you and what you do around here.
If people have talked to you privately, like I have through IM, or even really read what you write on here it does seem pathetic. Your devotion and dedication to Rich seems to go a bit too far. As Dennis has said, Rich CAN speak for himself, he has a lovely (inside and out) wife and IMO doesn't need you to act like an online wife or, for that matter, an online Mother! I have seen this year after year, or you attack and run year after year, or you whine if someone says something about you year after year. If you are trying to fool anyone with what your personality type is, well, the only one you are fooling is yourself! You are the welcome wagon, the lonely hearts queen but that is about where it stops.
Do not use Rich or Fauna for how YOU feel. Perhaps you are upset that the people involved apologized to others but not you? If that is the case, because they did apologize to Rich then speak for yourself, not through Rich and Fauna.
I love this site, and will do much for it but since YOU chose to bring this back up again I will give my .02 on it and here it is in black and light green.
Not everyone is going to sing your praises, just like not everyone is going to sing mine. Get over it.
