Cheri,
Unfortunately, far too many people take disagreements as being bashing. When the same disagreement were to take place in person, body language, word inflections, tones, and all the other cues that nature has set us up for to keep from killing each other over conversations is missing. My style of writing is of the style that the shortest distance between two points is a straight line. MANY people interpret that as rude, harsh, acrid, and any other negative connotation you can come up with. But to me, all I feel I am doing is getting to the point as quickly and as directly as I can. I have, no doubt offended people this way.
With that in mind, let's look at what you have stated here:
So was left to see what developed with it, and like I said, it worked.
That is rather contrary to KS usual policies. Normally when an abusive post is spotted, it is deleted immediately upon discovery. Why was this one treated differently? I really wish I had seen the thread so I could comment from a bedrock of knowing what I am talking about, because all I am going by is what people have stated in this thread about it. But the implications are that the message started out as troll bait and pure garbage, which is when it should have been deleted. But it wasn't deleted until AFTER it became a more pointed and information providing (by what I have heard here) thread. This appears, to me, directly contrary to what a moderator would have as goals in controlling the content of the forum they are responsible for.
When you say "it worked", that implies, to me, an ulterior motive for allowing the thread to remain, and once it served the purpose, to then remove the evidence and anything that might have caused a contrary opinion to begin forming in the readers' minds. It certainly implies that it developed more quickly in uncomfortable directions than the moderators had anticipated.
But like I said, I'm only going through third party info on what that thread actually said, and I do apologize if my interpretation is all wet.
The problem did not start with JeffB, it started over several post of Adam's on here, please go back and read those. If I remember many from here pointed out he pushed the issue to get banned, and himself admits was hotheaded, then started that website, KingSnakeSucks or something to that effect and grew from there.
No, the problem did not start there. Adam was being severely trounced by nearly everyone posting in that thread he started. The general consensus of people making statements there was strongly against his opinion. Adam did nothing that was out of bounds on THIS site, and any reasonable person would have seen that Adam's direction was self-destructive and bound to be short lived. Matter of fact, several people pointedly TOLD Adam that.
Jeff has been there before, so this was nothing new to him.
The 'problem' started with Jeff's phone call to me. Any reasonable person would think it ludicrous that Adam Block was even a miniscule threat to Jeff's site. When Jeff called me, I thought for sure we were going to have a big chuckle over the whole thing, just as we have several times over similar instances when he found KS or himself mentioned on this site. Everyone is fair game if someone has a beef, and that's always been the way it is here.
Obviously something was different this time. Perhaps there is a lot more to it than we all know, but I certainly know that it wasn't the same guy I talked to that day that I've talked to off and on for the last few years.
So here's what we have as facts, and implications of those facts:
(1) Adam Block got Jeff Barringer mad at him and this resulted in Adam being banned from kingsnake.com
(2) Adam Block got mad at Jeff Barringer because of an issue with a refund of his money that he paid to have an account on kingsnake.com
(3) Adam Block related this incident on the Board of Inquiry, following the rules that are posted here and in a manner consistent with prior similar incidents.
(4) Adam Block got a domain name 'KINGSNAKESUCKS.COM' and set up an active site using this name.
(5) Jeff Barringer called me on the phone and demanded I remove the entire thread by Adam Block.
(6) Jeff Barringer told me that he was going to sue Adam Block in federal court and there was a real good change I would get named in that lawsuit because of this thread on MY site.
(7) When I refused to delete that thread, Jeff Barringer's closing comment that because of my refusal to delete that thread, 'BOI' and 'FAUNACLASSIFIEDS' would be banned from his site.
(8) Subsequently, someone contacted the domain host for 'KINGSNAKESUCKS.COM' and got the account closed.
(9) Subsequently, someone found out that Adam Block used FedEx as his shipper, and contacted said shipper to have his account terminated.
I haven't added an item about that thread in the KS forum, simply because I'm not exactly sure what transpired there and everything is hearsay at this point. If someone had captured the text so I could read it, I would feel better about knowing first hand what was said.
So you make up your own mind about what this all means.