I think the issue began as a miscommunication between Josh and Terri. Josh was told that he would get a dragon from the older clutch if there was a hold back quality female available. Since there was not, Josh opted for the younger clutch which were 2 weeks old at the time. In one email Terri had said that it takes roughly 4 weeks to reach the right size for shipping, but she also said the the 2 week olds would need an additional month to grow. So, Josh was thinking four weeks total and Terri was thinking four weeks longer.
Josh got nervous after finding other negative feedback and decided that he just wanted a refund since he was not getting the attention he felt he deserved. Both Terri and Josh felt like they were getting the run around and it's turned into a bit of a spat.
When Mark decided to chime in right as people were starting to gnaw into Terri it didn't do much but rouse more suspicion. Mark can be undeniably linked to being a "rep" for Fire and Ice based on his own postings on various sites as well as through others crediting him as such. Mark is affiliated with Terri in a business partnership and thus his anonymous praise seems contrived. His original post as well as the praise on the Fire and Ice website make him appear to be unaffiliated with Fire and Ice and he describes himself as a happy customer. Whether Terri asked for Mark's help is irrelevant as Mark's laudatory remarks reflect his own interests as a representative of Fire and Ice.
Since Terri's TOS is a bit open-ended when it comes to refunds, I think the best move is to just give Josh his money back and save some face.
Mark, you claim to be a breeder in your own right, but I have yet to find any listing for dragons that do not directly associate you with Fire and Ice products. Even your review of a feeder company references Fire and Ice...