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Maggie, again, I am sorry that there are such people in this world. It was only the updates about my friend Chuck that kept me from getting banned myself for laying into the sorry excuse for a human being who would post such stupidity. I am still refraining from letting loose the furry which I am feeling towards his malicious post. :angry:

I am glad to hear of Chuck's blinking to let you know that he can hear you. That is great news and regardless hint of a down or downs, I sit in anticipation for further news. I'm sorry that you had a rough day and that you and your children have to be going through any of this. I hope and pray for better days ahead for you all.
 
Herpster said:
Things are pretty much the same, ups and downs, and I really don't want to get into specifics right now - it's been a very hard day and night and my children are really feeling the effects right now and it's killing me. I can tell you though, that I asked Charles to blink for me if he heard me and he slowly closed his eyes and opened them again, but there are some other issues right now too. I will let you know tomorrow when I learn more - at least ups and downs are better than all downs.
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Hang in there, Maggie. Just keep focused on that day when we get to bring Chuck home. Because he IS coming home. Nothing that happens between now and then is going to matter in the least when you are pulling into your driveway with your husband by your side.

Great big hugs, Maggie, great big hugs!!
 
DAND said:
Maggie, again, I am sorry that there are such people in this world. It was only the updates about my friend Chuck that kept me from getting banned myself for laying into the sorry excuse for a human being who would post such stupidity. I am still refraining from letting loose the furry which I am feeling towards his malicious post. :angry:

I am glad to hear of Chuck's blinking to let you know that he can hear you. That is great news and regardless hint of a down or downs, I sit in anticipation for further news. I'm sorry that you had a rough day and that you and your children have to be going through any of this. I hope and pray for better days ahead for you all.
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:iagree:

And I for one am glad David has restrained from coming down hard on this insensitive piece of garbage. It would have not been pretty.

Chuck is in my prayers and I only wish the best for him and a speedy recovery!

Randal Berry
 
lanceheads said:
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And I for one am glad David has restrained from coming down hard on this insensitive piece of garbage. It would have not been pretty.

Chuck is in my prayers and I only wish the best for him and a speedy recovery!

Randal Berry
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I'd gladly would have taken a ban for Chuck but being able to participate and view what is going on here is much more important.
 
I just found this thread and I just wanted to tell Maggie, Chuck and their children that they are in my prayers and...
“May the road rise up to meet you, may the wind be ever at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and the rain fall softly on your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of his hand.”
Kyle
 
I was ready to take the 3 day vacation as well until I read Harald and Ken's post regarding the incident. I am just glad that I didnt let my temper dictate my actions.

Chuck, when you come back, make me some Pico De Gallo with your new SLAP CHOP please!
 
Mmm. I love me some pico. That'd go great with the chorizo/potato tacos I'm making tonight.

Thanks, now I gotta go raid the fridge. :rofl:
 
Wow, I didn't see this until now... What devastating news! I'm so glad things are looking up though :) Sending good vibes to you, Chuck and your family! We all miss him!
 
Thank you for keeping us posted Maggie.. I check on here every chance I get..

You guys are in my thoughts at all times right now.. and I can't wait to read the "he was able to give me a hug" update.. so hurry up with that one!!!

COME ON CHUUUUCK!!!
 
SamanthaJane13 said:
He should be made to wear the "Does Not Play Well With Others" shirt when he comes back.
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No! That's one of my fav non herp related pressies I've gotten, do not defile it :(

Some people just SUCK.
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:iagree:

Herpster said:
Things are pretty much the same, ups and downs, and I really don't want to get into specifics right now - it's been a very hard day and night and my children are really feeling the effects right now and it's killing me. I can tell you though, that I asked Charles to blink for me if he heard me and he slowly closed his eyes and opened them again, but there are some other issues right now too. I will let you know tomorrow when I learn more - at least ups and downs are better than all downs.

Also, I just wanted to let you know that I bought him a SLAP CHOP a few weeks ago and the first thing he said was "you're gonna love my nuts"! Much love to all of you.
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Take the time you need, I'm just grateful you're taking the time to keep us updated. We're all pulling for you guys.

I'm glad there was some more good news, I'll be praying for more for you.

You should put the slap chop next to his bed instead of flowers :)

Don't worry about your response to the :censored:, it was much tamer than what spewed out of my mouth. I'm just glad I read the whole thread before responding or I'd be in time out right now.

Thanks for booting him Ken, wish it was for good though.
 
Continuing to keep him in my prayers, and am glad for the news of whatever improvements there are :)
 
I just got back from the hospital again. His nurse said there was more movement today than ever so that is good. He did squeeze my hand today but it was more of a reflex because when I asked him to, he did not do it, but I'm happy for the reflex! Whatever it was, it felt great.

They turned his tv on because the nurse said he seemed to move more when there were people in the room talking - they put on the news, but I changed it to the food network and told them not to change it from that. I know he loves Giada (sp?) so maybe that will get his blood pumping!

I'll let you know what's going on when I get home later tonight.
 
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